Finding Happy VLOG - Top Tips To Boost Your Confidence

This video, presented by Monique Bradley discusses tips on how to boost your confidence, success and happiness! In this VLOG Monique - a professional speaker and personal empowerment coach - discusses the effects being confident can have in your life and success and shares her tips that you can use to boost your own personal empowerment.

Here's a transcript:

In my work as a presenter and empowerment coach, I often hear stories of those who are lacking in confidence, who feel unable to speak up for themselves, define their personal boundaries or even say no. I’ve even been that person myself as I struggled for years with confidence issues and low self esteem. So I thought today I would share my tips that I developed to help myself feel good and get out there again!

Serendipity and following the signs…

Im a believer in Serendipity and for those of you familiar with the Universal Law Of Attraction - Like attracts like.

Ever wondered about the science behind this statement?

According to Quantum Physics, on a molecular level we are all buzzing protons, neutrons and electrons that emit an electro magnetic charge. If the Law Of Attraction is correct, you attract what you are. Think about it. According to this law, the world around you is an outward reflection or a mirror of that which you are emitting. Do you like what you see OR would you like to make a change? The answer is simple - The change starts with you.

I thrive on floating from serendipitous moment to serendipitous moment as I endeavour to live constantly in a place of peace, joy and happiness and have the most amazing encounters. I saw it happen some months back where people suggested that I should meet a particular celebrity as we would get along famously, to which I replied 'When the time is right, our paths would cross…' And they did. Extraordinary circumstances where we happened to be in the same place at the same time, not just once but several times! Of course, I didn't just 'send it out there to the Universe' - I emitted the thought and took inspired action to be out and about to help Serendipity play it's part.

Another recent alliance happened as I have been working on my business in the field of transformational change. My goal is to help as many people as I can, educating them about the power of conscious choice and Joy Triggers. I was even considering going back to study, looking at a degree in counselling or psychology to really activate the teaching work I'm already doing using peoples language to decipher their inner story- and help them write a new one!  (Read more after the jump)

So, I had the most amazing experience today.....

Pete Ward and I have been looking at the best way to expand the video production side of our business by purchasing a quality HD camera.  We tried several outlets all offering us great prices and add ons as an incentive to buy and yet when it came time to purchase, something would go wrong. The salesperson would try to find the stock only to discover there was none.  OR - and this was a funny one - we had an offer made and weren't sure, so said we would pop away for 15 mins to get a coffee and mull over the decision. By the time we got back, the last camera was sold.

I decided it was a sign - we even discussed that it was all a bit too hard and had that sick feeling in our stomachs that the purchase just didn't sit right with either of us.  Pete kept researching and discovered other places selling what we thought was the best camera, but even then, we still had a couple of reservations.  Was it going to deliver the sound quality we were after? Would it do what we needed it to do? It seemed there were so many questions unanswered and considering the amount of money required for the investment, was it going to pay off financially? I needed answers.

There are a number of reasons why people don’t experience the happiness they long for.

The list can be long and varied, but ultimately boils down to one of the following three things:

• Someone isn’t doing what they want 
• They aren’t doing what they want (with their time)
• They believe they can’t have what they want

I was talking to a client about beliefs the other day.  They said to me that they believe they can have what they want – they’re just frustrated with waiting for the results to show up.

Do you hear that voice too? You know, the one that say’s ‘oh no you couldn’t do that or you're not good enough’ I heard it this morning while I was visualising a couple of my audacious goals. It very quickly and quietly told me to settle down and not get to big.

I’ve heard this voice, I’m guessing most of my life, however since creating my company blossom probably more so.

Hi there. Monique from Get A Life. As an actor and performer, I’ve spent many years watching peoples behaviour and studying qualities about different personality types.  The one’s that intrigue me most are the ‘People Magnets’ – the ones that people are drawn too but don’t quite know why.  So here is a list of what I’ve discovered.  Try these tips and see how they work for you!  I look forward to hearing of your success.  Monique XX  (please sign in to continue reading!)